There’s an elephant in the room... maybe it ought to be addressed!
Confrontation can be challenging without effective communication strategies. There are three common forms of communicating: passive, aggressive, and assertive.
—Speaking assertively is done by using clear, honest statements that pronounce beliefs, needs and emotions or thoughts.
—Directly avoiding speaking of what is wanted or needed while using deceptive body languages is passively communicating.
—Messages delivered with high emotions and low empathy, and taking the “winning stance” in arguments is an aggressive form of communication.
Using vocabularies sensibly and effectively is central to creating respectable communication with peers. Appropriate word choice and practice is significant in delivering the differences between clear and concise communication as opposed to confusing and complicated statements. Positive words help deliver positive messages; likewise, for negative communications. Correspondingly, the dialect of individual self-talk impacts the conversations with the internal self.
Effective communication can help promote honesty and integrity within personal relationships. It is also important to engage in active listening such as showing positive body language signs like eye contact or facial expressions. Vocal cues such as: “go ahead” “I’m listening” “sounds like” or “what I’m hearing is” exhibit active listening skills, and support navigating the discussion easily back to the speaker. Asking appropriate questions also helps better understand the situation. Most inquiries are fine, however, taking time to consider suitable or effective questions is often more respectful.
Socializing in the modern age by means of text messaging, emails or social media has influenced the effectiveness and integrity of individuals vocabulary and grammar. These modern varieties encourage quick replies, and short-handed responses—leading to many “non-formal” conversations. These conversational skills deprive “in person” social dexterity; which may result in non-effective communications. Resourceful use of grammar indicates how well practiced one is with speaking successfully.
Reading books and learning new word definitions may help expand vocabularies. Another great way of adding more diversity is by engaging in community meetings, or events– participating in activities like this frequently encourages natural learning. Similarly, work environments, or educational situations may also lead to increasing communicative wisdom.
Communication is a beautiful gift and an important key for success and happiness. There are many forms of expression and one of the most common processes is through language. Whether it be spoken by mouth or body— how one expresses themselves may determine the quality of living being pursued.
Words become actions, actions become behaviors, behaviors define who we are. Talking is an essential daily skill used for expressing needs, wants, and ideas.
Communicating effectively requires diligent training and some trial and error.
Every word has a meaning.
Every word has a purpose.
How will you use your language to communicate?
Good stuff! A great reminder...